First Dates: What To Avoid, In Order To Attract Women. - A Wonderful Guide For More Information

Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I frequently get queries about how to attract women, or the direction to go to attract women.

A common concern that guys have is how to avoid making those critical mistakes on the first date that prevents ever enjoying a second date or making a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship). I'm going to discuss some of them here.

Well, there are certain mistakes a guy can make. Let me summarize the most common ones here.

The largest mistakes guys make on first dates are:

1) Speaking about themselves excessively. Trying to be interesting instead of interested.

2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.

3) Focusing too much on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.

4) Not using subtleties enough (What a woman understands)

5) Not developing sexual flow or interest.

6) Not creating future. (A relationship is dependent on future.)

The initial mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk everything regarding themselves, sort of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he's got this job and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that trying to impress the girl that he is a good catch.

What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that's not going to be able to look after her at all, because he isn't serious about her and doesn't listen to what she wants to say. Not a good relationship prospect.

Another way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they need to be interesting for a girl to be thinking about them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You should be interested in the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting people on a date. It is hilarious! They are both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be considering another.

If you do not know what We are talking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is serious about you? Or a girl who is telling you how cool she is, how hot she is, etc, and all kinds of other interesting issues.

Interesting leads to many rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls can be friends with a guy who is really interesting. Why? Girls love to be amused and entertained. Interesting men are sort of like children to them. A source of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.

That's all we have room to discuss about here, but you will get more data on the other five errors at Dating To Relating.

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